Cyndee
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Has My World Gone Insane!!!
My 19yo just walked out of his room this morning with two girls! Seems I had overnight guests I knew nothing about. He said it got too late last to
take them home last night, so he had them spend the night at our house (his room). I could almost convince myself nothing happened (almost), except
one of the girls walked out with her t-shirt inside out.
Tell me again why beating your children is a bad thing!
I don't need this!
[Edited on 7/31/2010 by Cyndee]
[Edited on 7/31/2010 by Cyndee]
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czechwizard
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At the age of 18 I was flashing my ID 25/8. I wish I were that 19yo. I'd just make sure that both gals leave no trace, much less a political
incorrectness T shirt inside out.
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Tangoshoes
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Oh my goodness! What a brave son you have! I'm almost glad I don't have kids. I know what I tried and got away with when I was one... 
Buy the ticket, take the ride.
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Paul
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He's 19, not a child any more. Wait 'til he does something really good...
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andisaid
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19 and with two girls??? He must be some stud!!! Just kidding. If there was two of them, you don't really need to worry.
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Mystress Gaia
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Cyndee...
He is 19, no longer the baby boy... I wouldn't worry to much. He did the responsible thing by letting them stay (although it should have been on the
couch with your permission) but he did do right. You would not have wanted to find out about a car accident in the middle of the night because one of
the young ladies fell asleep at the wheel.
As for what Andi said, I know what I was doing at 19 even in the same room with other girls lol. I'd personally start putting condoms in his room.
Rather be safe/protected than sorry 
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Tangoshoes
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LOL I must be way old school! I think this is the parents' home, and there should be some respect involved on some level for said parents. At any
age, I wouldn't consider doing anything in my parents' home that involved other people LOL without letting someone know that hey, so and so is here...
but I mean, you really don't know if anything, what was going on... tee inside out though only gives a small sight as to what perhaps, but still... I
think he should told ya he was having a slumber party LOL
Buy the ticket, take the ride.
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Mystress Gaia
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This made me remember the day my mom walked in my room to see me sleeping on my bed in the middle of two of my male friends. There was no hanky panky,
we just crashed. I was 17 and a half, and my mom was okay with me having male guests overnight. It was assumed she could walk in at any moment so we
were pretty respectful of that. But she did get a shock when she saw my friend George (6'5 and a few hundred pounds, not fat he is a big dude and
solid) on one side, me in the middle and my friend Adam (5'6, short but solid, he did however have a striking resemblance to bart simpson) on the
other side.
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Cyndee
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Czech-Your not helping my sanity.
Paul-If he's not a child (ie. imature) then he can get his own house.
Andi-I realized a little while ago why the other girl looked so odd. She was wearing a pair of my son's gym shorts.
Linda-He already has those accessories, but still, it is not his house.
Tango-Finally a voice of total agreement of my own "old school" values. Don't get me wrong. I wasn't an angel when I was younger, but I never would
have done that in my parent's house.
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Mystress Gaia
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Aww Cyndee...
Look on the bright side, he thought you were cool enough as a mom to understand why he let them stay. And he didn't sneak them out or try to hide that
they were there.
Let him know that next time, you expect they won't stay in his room but the couch is open or not. Lay down the law of your home.
If you had no rules in place about such a thing before, how was he supposed to know he was breaking them?
19 year olds are adults legally whether they are mature or not.
Tell him how it is going to be. Either he can have the guests or not under your rules or he can move out so he can have the guests under his rules. At
19 I think he'll be able to handle it.
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